Former First Lady Michelle Obama has once again explained her decision to not attend President Donald Trump’s inauguration, this time attributing it to a personal choice related to self-care and boundary-setting. In the podcast “IMO with Michelle Obama & Craig Robinson,” she mentioned a change in mindset, stating, “It started with not having anything to wear,” as reported by the Daily Mail. Her comments have sparked discussions about the significance of former first families attending presidential inaugurations and have coincided with rumors about the state of her marriage to former President Barack Obama.
The tradition of former presidents and their spouses attending successor's inaugurations serves as a symbol of democratic continuity and national unity. Michelle Obama's decision to skip the event marked a notable departure from this custom. Notably, President Trump and Melania Trump also broke with tradition by not attending President Joe Biden's inauguration in 2021.
The speculation around the Obama's personal life has been fueled by Barack Obama's solo attendance at significant functions, including the recent funeral of former President Jimmy Carter. Online reports and social media posts have questioned the strength of the Obama's marriage, leading to Michelle Obama addressing the issue directly. She expressed frustration with the scrutiny, emphasizing that her decision was for herself and not indicative of marital issues.
The Obamas have sought to dispel the rumors by sharing affectionate messages and public displays of affection. On Valentine’s Day, Barack Obama posted a selfie with his wife, complimenting her in a heartfelt message. Michelle reciprocated with a post referring to Barack as her “rock.” They were also seen together at a romantic dinner at Osteria Mozza in Washington, D.C., engaging with patrons and staff.
Despite their public appearances, some remain skeptical of the state of the Obama's marriage. Michelle Obama's explanation for missing Carter's funeral was attributed to a "scheduling conflict," though she was reportedly vacationing in Hawaii at the time. Additionally, Barack Obama's cordial interaction with Trump at the funeral sparked varied reactions.
Critics have questioned Michelle Obama's rationale for missing the inauguration. Kid Rock, a musician and frequent Fox News guest, recalled attending Obama's inauguration out of respect for the presidency, suggesting that Michelle should have done the same. Michelle Obama, however, has focused her messaging on empowering younger women to practice "the art of saying no," likening it to a muscle she is now building.
